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December 25, 2011

Appraising One’s Self Worth: Increasing one’s self-esteem

Too much of everything can be unhealthy. Although self-esteem is very important in appraising one’s self-worth, too much self-esteem can also bring down one’s destruction. When people define self-esteem, concepts of self-confidence, self-worth, self-love, and self-acceptance among others are usually the concepts to arise. While these may define self-esteem, people should understand that these are only factors that may affect one’s self-esteem.

One of the most popular notions is that self-esteem is the health of mind. Self-esteem can be viewed as an individual’s perception of his own self-worth; that is, the value he gives to his overall personality. However, to increase one’s self-esteem, people should work on things that indirectly affect it. These are one’s mindset, overall health, and environment. Having a positive outlook is our key to having a high self-esteem. Stress from the environment can surely affect our state of mind when coupled with poor coping mechanisms. Thus, it is important that despite having problems, people should maintain a positive outlook and try to solve these problems in an adaptive way.

With a weak self-esteem, people become vulnerable to the stresses of life. Problems may be easily handled by a person with a high self-esteem and a positive outlook in life. Moreover, to reach self-actualization, one of the steps people must satisfy is having a high self-esteem. Without it, we would not have the motivation to reach our dreams and be satisfied with our personal growth. However, we must always remember to not have too much of it. Otherwise, having too much self-esteem will hinder us from grabbing the opportunities that are presented to us.

 

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